Naming ceremony preparation guide

Here's everything you need to know about what to expect on the day of your ceremony. After reviewing this information, you can complete the ceremony options form to share your preferences and personal additions.

Arrival

To ensure your ceremony proceeds smoothly and on schedule, it's essential that you and your guests are ready to begin on time. Late arrivals risk a shortened ceremony or even postponement to another day, this is to ensure later ceremonies on the same day are not impacted. Please be aware that additional fees may apply if your ceremony is postponed. 

Around 20 minutes before your ceremony, your registrar will meet you at your venue for a brief pre-ceremony check. This is to review the proceedings and confirm any personal elements you've chosen.

Number of guests

Ceremonies at a Register Office 

Each ceremony room has a strict maximum capacity, determined by fire regulations, which cannot be exceeded. 

These capacities include everyone present except the registrars: the couple, all guests (including children of all ages), photographers, videographers and musicians. 

Please ensure you are aware of the capacity of your chosen ceremony room. You can find our room capacities below. 

Ceremonies at another venue 

The maximum number of guests your venue can accommodate is determined by its safe capacity. Please check with your venue about their maximum capacity.

Photos and videos

Photos and videos are permitted throughout the entire ceremony. If you have a professional photographer or videographer and would prefer guests to refrain from taking their own, please state this on your ceremony options form, and your registrar will make an announcement at the start of your ceremony.

Music

You may include music at three points during your ceremony; for your entrance, during the signing of the commemorative certificate, and on your exit. 

Register office ceremonies 

If your ceremony is taking place at a register office. We have the following facilities, that you are welcome to use:

  • Bluetooth speaker
  • CD player
  • AUX port (please bring your own cable)

You are welcome to use your own speaker or device, but please note that mains power will not be available for plugging in any equipment. 

Finally, you will need to nominate one of your guests to manage the playing of your music. 

Ceremonies at another venue 

For ceremonies held outside a register office, discuss music arrangements directly with your venue. 

Readings

Readings can be included in your ceremony.

The placement of the readings within your ceremony can vary, depending on its content. You can discuss this with your registrar during the pre-ceremony check. 

Guiding adults

If you've chosen Guiding Adults for your child, your ceremony can include a moment for them to affirm their love and support to your child. 

You'll also have the chance to express your reasons for choosing them and the significance of their role, should you wish.

Promises

During the ceremony parents, and guiding adults will have an opportunity to make personal promises.

A number of suggested promises can be found listed on the options form, but if you prefer you are welcome to write your own. 

Commemorative certificate

You'll get a commemorative certificate to take home as a keepsake of the special day. Parents and guiding adults will sign this during the ceremony, which makes for a lovely photo opportunity.

If you'd like to order additional certificates or any other commemorative products contact the Ceremonies Hub on 0345 60 80 198.  

Ceremony options form

Your ceremony options form should be submitted to the Ceremonies Hub one month before your ceremony date, detailing all personal additions.

Complete the ceremony options form once you have finalised all your personal additions. 

Questions

If you have any further questions, please contact us

Phone: 0345 60 80 198

Email: ceremonieshub@eastsussex.gov.uk