My family moved to the UK from Holland for my husband’s work, and it took nearly a year for me to feel happy here in England. I wasn’t working (I haven’t for 10 years) and I was here for 8 or 9 months before people in the street would even say hello. Although my husband’s family live here, it felt as though my world was getting smaller and smaller. I needed to find a new social network and make friends of my own.
Two years ago, I saw an advert for WRVS volunteers in the local newspaper. Despite vaguely hearing of them, I didn’t really know what they did. When discussing it with my family, their first question was: ‘will you be making cups of tea?’
What does WRVS do?
WRVS provides a range of practical services to help and support older people to live well, maintain their independence and play a part in their local community.
I joined the group in St. Leonards and – instead of making cups of tea – started working with a reminiscence group aged 55 to 70, helping to document their memories. Initially, it was very challenging to get people to share their experiences, but – after gaining their trust – we became friends. Activities such as belly dancing helped people to open up because they were having fun.
You have to enjoy talking to people to work on this project but, luckily, I do. It is such a good laugh, and we laugh a lot. I never imagined myself belly dancing.
Learning new skills and making friends
This is absolutely the best way to meet people, especially as a stranger in a new place. It has really opened the door to some wonderful friendships. I keep coming back not only for the social aspect, but also for opportunities such as attending courses and seminars.
There is no denying that the skills and experience will look good on my CV, but it is my friends that I am most thankful for.
I definitely recommend that people give volunteering a try. Find out more about ways to volunteer.
East Sussex County Council